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Notes, essays, and occasional detours.
A running collection of Francis Sopper’s writing on cognition, attention, work, relationships, and the curious ways our minds make sense of the world.
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Inspiration for this post comes from the aspiration expressed by Bob Sternfels, McKinsey and Company's Global Managing partner since 2021.
Good Neighbors Make Good Neighbors
Our neighbor, Skip, took it upon himself to plow out our driveway at 5:30 am on the morning of our first snow accumulation this year.
It's a long story that starts with our neighborhood mailboxes being out on the side of a state highway across the road from our neighborhood. Because of the low population density, we have USPS Rural Route delivery, which means our neighborhood mail comes to a mailbox cluster rather than to our houses.
Cultural Discomfort
One of you this week, emailed to point out I appeared to be more judgmental of Robert Frost's narrator in Mending Wall than of the narrator's neighbor. The reader's observation on this one allows me to understand I put the burden on the cultural misalignment on Frost over his neighbor. I feel okay with that because Frost wrote the account, and was the one who moved next to his neighbor rather than the other way around, and thereby imposes his outsider point of view on the situation.
Between Stone Walls and Sugar Bushes
Sugaring season in Vermont officially starts on the first Tuesday in March, which is also Town Meeting Day. Sugaring here means maple sugar -- sugar being the word for the sweet sap that can be drawn out of a maple tree at the very beginning of spring when the maple tree draws the carbohydrates stored in its roots once the temperatures consistently rise to above freezing during the day.
Humanity Doesn't Have a Side
Allen is a multigenerational Vermonter. Well, in my eyes he is. His parents, grandparents, and great grandparents were born here and all lived in our small town. Well, in my eyes it's our town. He and my son met when they were both six-years old. By that time, my son had been born in Boston, lived in LA for five years, and had just arrived with his parents to the small Vermont village where Allen lived in a house his parents' built on family-owned land.
Potato Stuffing
A couple of summers ago, I went to an outdoor dinner and concert in our small town. The setting overlooked a watery meadow where the West River flows out of the Vermont mountains and joins the Connecticut River on its way to the Atlantic Ocean. The felicity of the geography has made it a meeting, gathering place, and trading center for millennia. The short growing season and otherwise hilly terrain has kept it small, though nonetheless useful.
Two Hours Before the Show
Two nights ago I was in Hartford, Connecticut to hear Emery play. Living in Vermont, I don't get much chance to hear Seattle post-hardcore punk, and the bonus was to hang out with the band along with Business and Culture/Environment Developer, Caity Fransen, before the show. After an early meet and greet for the band members and dedicated fans followed by pizza in the green room, one of the founding members, guitarist and keyboardist Matt Carter, and Caity took me out to the streets of Hartford to talk Kairos in the two hours before the Emery set.
Cradles of Eminence
Writer Mildred Goertzel and her psychologist husband Victor Goertzel, in 1962, published the results of their study of the formative years of 400 of the most prominent people at the time. They chose their subjects by identifying them by the number of citations in the major newspapers and magazines at the time - a concept predating the internet search engine.
What If You Can
Hi everyone - Robert here, Frank’s colleague at Kairos.
Before we step into today’s story, I want to name something many of us silently wrestle with:
We grow up in systems; schools, families, workplaces -- that teach us how things are supposed to be done. And for some of us, those instructions fit. But for many of us (like myself)… they don’t. Not because we lack ability, or effort, or talent but because the method wasn’t designed with our cognitive preferences in mind.
Obsessive Or Careful?
Once I spent the week at the house of a nuclear physicist. Dick had just gotten a new automatic drip coffee maker, so that week was testing week. Each morning, Dick took out the coffee, a gram balance, a graduated cylinder, and a small notebook. He weighed out the coffee and noted the weight. He then measured the water and noted the volume. He brewed it, poured out a cup, and made tasting notes.